Couches, Curtains and Creepypasta: Using Proxemics to Feel Safer in Your Apartment

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Humans are territorial creatures. There's a whole branch of scientific study within the field of anthropology which explores just how territorial we are. It's called "proxemics" and it takes into account how we respond to people touching us, standing close to us, and making noises in our general vicinity. You've probably heard of the terms "personal space" and "comfort zone." Both of those concepts arose out of the study of proxemics.

When we're forced to live in small apartments or small apartment buildings with strangers our territorial boundaries are challenged. Our instincts in these situations force us into a state of heightened awareness, much closer to the "fight or flight" threshold. We're more prone to getting into fights and flying off the handle. Today we'll be using the science of proxemics and a study of common factors in creepypasta/horror stories to help renters choose an apartment that minimizes this sense of perpetual invasion. We'll also look at ways to arrange your furniture to help minimize conflicts between roommates. Continue reading Couches, Curtains and Creepypasta: Using Proxemics to Feel Safer in Your Apartment

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Kay Cleaves

The Problems of Package Delivery in Chicago Apartments

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This article was originally going to be "questions to ask your next landlord about package delivery," but once I got about 2 paragraphs in I realized that it's a problem that extends far beyond something that landlords can address on their own. So I'm framing it from the perspective of a discussion that Chicago residents and residents of other cities nationwide need to have as a community, involving the US Postal system, landlords, property managers, third party parcel carriers, logistics innovators, and municipal governments.

We've stuck our fingers in our ears for too long on the matter of increasing package delivery volume. Today I'm going to simply try and outline the problems we're facing. Hopefully it will serve as launchpad for discussion, because I'm not really sure of a way forward but I'm also not sure how much longer we can afford to ignore the matter. Continue reading The Problems of Package Delivery in Chicago Apartments

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Do You Know Who Has Keys to Your Apartment? (Lock and Key Day)

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This article will go live on October 18, 2019. Chances are that Chicago teachers will still be on strike and public non-charter schools will still be closed. This means that a lot of Chicago residents will be allowing babysitters into their homes. Those babysitters will be given keys to the property which may or may not be returned when the work is finished.

According to the FBI's annual report on crimes across the nation during 2018, about 38.5% of burglaries in major metropolitan counties like Chicago had no sign of forced entry. It is very tough for the police to take action on these kinds of crimes. So today I want to start a new annual special day, to occur each year on the Friday after Columbus Day, called "Lock and Key Day".

If you've never changed your apartment locks since you moved into your apartment, I want you to take some time today to get permission from your landlord and get it done.

If you've already changed your locks, give some thought to who might have copies of your keys and get them back if you think they shouldn't still have access to your home.

If you're reading this article for the first time on some day other than Lock and Key Day, put it in your calendar or just get it out of the way now while you're thinking about it. Read on to find out why. Continue reading Do You Know Who Has Keys to Your Apartment? (Lock and Key Day)

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How to Find a Good Apartment Sight-Unseen

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Sometimes you have to move to a new city in a hurry. Sometimes that city is too far away for you to make two trips out for house hunting and your actual move. We've covered relocation a little in the past before but there's a very special scenario that arises when you have to pick a new home without being able to visit any of your options in person. Today we're going to give you some pointers on how to find an apartment in a different city sight unseen.

In some cases, people who need to move in these situations can ask their employer to put them up in temporary housing until they can find new digs. Some others may have family or friends with couches or guest bedrooms that are alright for a week or two. This is not for you guys. This is for the folks who are moving on short notice with no anchors in the new city, as well as for the very kind and generous folks who are serving as proxies for them. Continue reading How to Find a Good Apartment Sight-Unseen

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Kay Cleaves

The 6 Ws of Apartment Inspections

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The concept of regular apartment inspections by the landlord or property manager is a very old one that is seeing new popularity among property managers across the U.S. Some tenants are surprised the first time they encounter a landlord who wants to inspect their apartment on a regular basis. Some have been regularly inspected without knowing it. Others, especially those on government rent subsidies, are accustomed to it. Today we're going to go over the 6 W's (what, why, who, when, where and how to prepare/avoid) of the apartment inspection process so that renters can be ready to deal with these encounters and come out of them on top. Continue reading The 6 Ws of Apartment Inspections

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Kay Cleaves